When going through a divorce, it is not an option to disclose all assets. Rather, it's a legal requirement. Failing to disclose all assets can even lead to consequences, like an ex-spouse ending up with all of what was not disclosed. In extreme cases, it can even lead to jail time.
When going through a divorce, each spouse normally spends a good amount of time worrying about how assets are going to be divided. Is the ex-husband going to keep the home? Is the wife going to try and take the family van? Just how are the bank accounts going to be split up?
When a couple is in the process of obtaining a divorce, if one spouse was a member of the armed forces, it turns out a military pension may be one of the most valuable assets. But, like any asset, problems can arise during and after the divorce -- especially if the marriage overlapped the time in service.